Sunday, April 19, 2009

The Thing About Frowning


They say you either nurse the pain inside or spill it out. More often than not, we just smile though inside we bleed. And what`s pushing it more is we cannot just let everybody know what we feel because freedom comes with responsibility. So when we`re stuck with a choice between expressing yourself that could hurt others and just keeping it inside then no one gets affected but you, we tend to pick the second option. It may sound very sainty and holy but most of the time, this is what we do.

This is a case in life where the victim and the criminal are you, yourself. No one`s held responsible for you getting hurt because it is you who made the choice of nursing the anguish inside and not letting it out. While it may sound absurd, it is of noble act, too, to just feel the pain yourself and not let others get affected of it. On the other hand, I think there is nothing wrong if we spill all the negative energy out, especially to our friends and family, because they`ll surely understand the situation.

It is okay to look sad and not happy all the time. All of us did, do and surely will.

And that is what I think about frowning, not all the time shall we fly solo. Especially when we`re hurt, we need not solve our problems on our own. That is why we have our family and friends to let us remember that we are not alone in this world. Sometimes, frowning is a bit good so others would know that you`re having a hard and bad time. Smiling all the time brings a person near to abusive acts. Thus, from a personal perspective, I say yes to sometimes-frowning to let those insensitive people know and feel that it is no longer okay, so not at all.

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